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It's been 2 years ago since I come back to Indonesia , just wanna share to all of you how I miss Guangzhou so much, miss the street food, miss China's loud noice haha, miss night market , miss my dorm, miss shopping market , miss my school, miss the club and a lot more to miss !

I am so excited if talking about this city, I had been there for 5 years and I already fall in love with it. Expecially winter time, because it makes my skin so great !





I will come back to this city on this year or next year , hopefully this year. 

How bout you? Did you ever miss some city and wanna go back again? 

See you on my next article :)




March 31, 2018 2 comments
You know how they say that comfort zones are great but that nothing ever grows there? Or that comfort zones are where dreams go to die? Well, it’s true. Discomfort is a sign that you were brave enough to step out of that zone into something bigger and better for yourself. We often think of this feeling as unhappiness but in fact, it’s nothing but a springboard. It might take us exactly where we want to go.




Here are 5 uncomfortable feelings that show you’re on the right track.


1. You feel lost.

Usually, this is the first sign which indicates that change is gonna come. Losing our sense of direction means we are only beginning to wake up to life around us. We start seeing things that we took for granted from a different perspective and we’re becoming more present. Although it feels you’re off track, in reality you’re not. You’re only reassessing your life goals.


2. You have an intense need to be alone.

Suddenly, socializing all the time doesn’t appeal to you so much anymore. You are starting to recognize that spending meaningful time alone will have a positive impact in your life


3. Your groups of friends suffer changes.

If you’re becoming less tolerant with people around you, it means you are now more aware of people’s negative energy and you learn to let go of all negativity that can hold you back.


4. You’re not sure of who you really are.

This is probably one of the most uncomfortable feelings simply because we rely so much on our personal identity and when that’s unsure, we’re lost. But this is a sign that you are questioning yourself at the deepest level. This doesn’t imply self-esteem issues but it’s more of an indicator that you are truly evolving as an individual.


5. You’ve just experienced a life-changing event.

When something huge happens in your life, it’s usually there to teach us a lesson and help us grow. Take a look at recent life changes such as a new job, the loss of someone dear, moving to a different town and see how you can use that to your advantage.

Other signs of positive change in your life include vivid intense dreams, random and irrational thoughts or weird sleeping patterns.


If any of this applies to you, good luck on your new life path! Please share to help others find out if they’re on the right track!
March 24, 2018 No comments

It’s sometimes easier to just give in to those feelings of emptiness. It’s also tempting to try and fill the void with other things like food, sex, alcohol, smoking or spending too much. You may feel a lack, like there isn’t enough love or affection in your life.

You may be craving for intimacy or for more friends that will stand by you when the times demand it. Or you want a deeper conversation or some warm advice that can lift your spirits a bit.

The question is: do you give yourself all these things? Do you treat yourself with enough care and understanding? Or just put yourself down at your first slip? Ask yourself these questions. And then remember this:

Feeling empty means there is something you need

Identify what exactly makes you feel empty or unloved. Once you know what your needs are, you can try to cater to them better. Maybe you need a night out with a friend, or dancing your blues away. If it’s fun you need, then make some time for yourself. Unwind with a hot bath and some good music and always remember to relax as much as you can.

If you feel that what you need is out of reach or beyond your control, maybe it’s just not meant to be for now. Give it some time and you will manage to see things more clearly.

Remember this is only temporary

In other words, this too shall pass. Because everything happens in cycles and circles in our lives, this is only a chapter for you. It may be challenging or uncomfortable, but it’s there for a reason: to keep the story unfolding. And as it does, right before your eyes, know that sorrow will only make room for happiness.

Give yourself the love you feel you need from others

Being kind to oneself can shift the relationship we have with our souls and bodies. Imagine if you scolded your child for all the little things you beat yourself up. If often happens that we’re kinder and gentler with others and at the same time harshly criticizing and judging ourselves for trifles. Why is that?

Commit to stop the way you treat yourself. Learn new ways to make yourself happy and know that taking care of yourself isn’t selfish. Giving yourself love will only make it overflow and spread it to others. Remember you can create a space of love and understanding. And in that space, you will be loved.

Please share this!
March 01, 2018 2 comments
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